This ones for the SPARKLE Sister!
ATTENTION SPARKLE SISTERS! How in the world are you going to convince someone that your confident, that your deserving, that you worked HARD to be up on that stage, that you would be an INCREDIBLE title holder, that YOU are BEAUTIFUL, that you are more than ENOUGH, that your dang PROUD to be on that stage, and that all be darn… you DESERVE to be on that stage! I could go on and on, but you get that point I’m sure.
How are YOU going to convince someone if you don’t TRULY FEEL it YOURSELF?!
I saw it this weekend! I wanted to go backstage and SHAKE some of these girls after swim competition. I didn’t because I didn’t know most of them and I probably would’ve scared them a bit if I did. lol! But seriously, I sat there in the front row with some of my sister Queens as formers, literally screaming for EVERY contestant, screaming so much that I ran out of “Whoo- Hoo’s” and my sister next to me had to pick up some of my slack because I was out of breath. I could see it in some of the posture, their stance, their walk, even their eyes! Heck, I mostly saw it in the MISS contestants!
MISS girls! I wanted to shake them! IF anyone should feel like they can rock a stage it should BE A MISS! Heck, you Miss’ are living your best life RIGHT NOW and you don’t even know it! Am I right? You know all you Mrs. reading this are nodding your heads like, Uh-Huh, Yea girl! 😉 Miss girls it doesn’t get any better than right now. The Teens still haven’t lived enough to have that amazing confidence to believe in themselves because their bodies go through change and well us Mrs., yea our bodies have changed tenfold by now lol. We all have a lot to worry about that puts pressure on our confidence levels. I wanted to shake these girls and SPARKLE some CONFIDENCE dust all over them! Their standing there looking amazing and it takes A LOT to be up there! Most people couldn’t do what they were doing and put themselves out there. They should be PROUD and OWN it! Show them, those judges, and every person in that room that THEY are all that and more!
I know it’s easier said than done, it took me YEARS to be confident in my own skin but girls, if you’re going to be up there, OWN it! Own that stage, make everyone FEEL YOU ARE THAT GIRL, the next Mrs, Miss, Teen, _______ and be PROUD! Proud and CONFIDENT that you are YOU! If you can’t feel that way in your heart about yourself, and again I know it’s not easy, how are you going to convince those 5 people to pick you for something you want so badly?! How are you going to make them FEEL YOU?!
You SPARKLE girls that are competing soon, or maybe you just did and you weren’t that ONE lucky girl that got to walk away giving those judges what they can to FEEL! PLEASE work on this! Work on your presence on stage and off. Take the time to work on how you FEEL internally BEFORE getting on that stage and BEFORE pageant weekend. Take the time to firm up the belief you have in yourself and your abilities, that is a very special characteristic to have in the SPARKLE world. A truly beautiful, quietly confident girl, that worked hard to be on that stage and knows in her heart that she DESERVES to be just as much as any girl up there and has that extra “thing” that you can’t put your finger on, she SPARKLES in her own unique way and has the ability to make others FEEL what she in her heart believes!
There’s something magical in a girl that can make someone FEEL like she’s that beautiful, confident, proud girl full of grace and grit that is on that stage giving everything she’s got, because she’s not going to go home with the regret of not making you FEEL that she is more than DESERVING to be up there and more than ENOUGH!
If you are getting ready to SPARKLE or even if you are NOT GOING TO GIVE UP and try again next year: work on your presence girls and your belief in YOU! ARRIVE to make others FEEL and BELIEVE what we ALL CAN SEE already and that is the BEAUTY of YOU!
Happy Hump Day Mom Queens!